last spinal tomorrow (tonight for you)
September 25th, 2008
Hello!
Well, tomorrow Jillian will receive the last of her stem cell injections! (That is tonight for you) Right now as I’m writing this it is 11 p.m. on Thursday night for us. So 11 a.m. Friday for us (11 p.m. Thursday night for you) is when she is scheduled. She can’t have anything to eat or drink in the morning because of going under the general anesthesia. But the last time it wasn’t scheduled until 2:30, so it was so hard telling her she couldn’t have anything aaaaaaaaalllll day. Good thing we don’t have as long to deprive the little human food disposal of food this time.
I’m sure there that nothing will go wrong this time. I’m sure they will pay extra attention and give extra care to the administration of the anesthesia this time. Plus, Dr. Mike I’m sure will make sure. I’ll let you all know how it went.
Just real quick…..Jillian did do a little something else she hasn’t been able to do before! Tonight after dinner when I was making her drink her yuckie medicine in juice, she reached up and grabbed and HELD the cup ALL BY HERSELF! With both hands!!!! She was so proud of herself!!!! She couldn’t quite get the straw in her mouth (they’re slippery little boogers), so I just put the straw in her mouth for her and she drank ALL BY HERSELF! Do you think I was just a little bit happy??!!!! Just a tiny bit.
I mean, she hasn’t done anything that would cause that earthquake I was hoping for YET, but all the parents I have talked to (many were on their second trip here) said that it is really two to three months after getting the stem cells that major changes show up. I mean that makes sense. But the fact that she has shown little things already is so promising! And I do mean it is a PROMISE! Not just a maybe. She also really seems to have matured a lot while we’ve been here, seems like she grew up a lot.
I had a 4×6 picture made of Jillian to leave here in a Florida palm-tree-hammocky-beachy photo frame that I brought from home with me, and when I showed the picture to LaLa, our helper, she held it to her chest and I could tell she wanted it for herself. She held it to her chest and said “Jillie!” in a Chinese accent kind of way, and was asking if it was for her, and I nodded my head and said “yes, for you,” and she was so excited, said “shee shee, shee shee” and kissed the picture a bunch of times. It made her truly happy to keep that picture. She loves Jillian so much, genuinely. Even though we don’t speak each other’s language, we still communicate so well and can joke with each other and understand and make each other laugh. She’s my Chinese friend. It really will be very sad to leave LaLa.
Do you know that when a surgery is performed, say, for instance, a tumor is removed, it is the custom here to bring the actual removed tumor out in a clear plastic bag and show it to the family? We saw a few of them.
Do you know that the little kids here, I mean the LITTLE ones, don’t wear diapers? They’re tiny little tots and they toddle around or are carried, and they wear little pants that have huge slits in them; it’s an opening from front to back and about all the way down to the knees? I’ve even seen a couple sitting in a shopping cart with their practically bare little bum. You’ll see a little boy that’s gotta go, and he just stops and pees……right then and there. They’re potty trained really early here.
We had a fun time this afternoon. Carole, Bridgette, and myself gave a bunch of the nurses and physical therapists and one doctor an English lesson. They LOVE it when you do that. They even have a note posted up in the rec room asking for people to take the time to teach the nurses English and to schedule a little class and prepare some kind of material for them. So they eagerly piled into the rec room and even more eagerly devoured every word and pronunciation we gave them. They practiced and practiced and watched your lips pronouce the word and repeated it over and over and took notes. It was great. Jillian sat in on the lesson and had a blast. Of course, no kidding, she thought they were all there for her. She’s such an attention ham! She kept looking at everybody and smiling and doing her newly-acquired clapping skill, waiting for the applause, also kept trying to say “quack” like a duck to impress everybody. Of course there were times when they were all focused on their paper/lesson, that they weren’t looking up, but persist she did, and all the while with a huge smile on her face, confident that she would get her deserved praise! And she wasn’t disappointed either.
Okay, I think I’ll get some shut eye now. Just wanted to make sure I let everybody know what time her next (and last) procedure is so you could keep the prayers coming! I’m confident that everything will go good, so don’t worry, okay?
And I still want to tell you how very important every single one of your comments to us are. Thanks for sending us the love. We can feel it.
Love to you all from China!
Tami & Jillie Bean (and Carole too!)
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6 Comments Add your own
1. Gwendolyn | September 26th, 2008 at 1:40 am
I’m so excited!!!!!!!!! that is so awesome! give yourself a round of applause Jillie Bean and one for your mommy!
I can’t wait to see ya’ll again.
love, love, love you,
Gwen
2. Jenn | September 26th, 2008 at 4:29 am
Hello Ladies
That is to cool the you are helping them with english. I am sure that they soaked it all up. And Jillie helped thats great. I am praying for you all. and know that things will be fine. Keep up the great work and enjoy the little bit of time left in China. the USA is waiting for our SUPER STARS to return home. Buy the way you are an Aunt againe. Brianne had Colton Gauge (i hope I spelled it write) on Sept 23 He was over 6 lbs. and all is well. A new cousin for Jillie Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!! Clap Jillie Clap…. Good Job…… Can’t wait to see you do that in person.
Praying for you till you return. and after.
Love You Both and carole to
Jenn, Doug, and David
3. Lori and Billy | September 26th, 2008 at 10:24 am
Hi Tami,
I’m so glad to hear you sounding so good. could it be that you and Jillie will be coming home real soon? Bet you two can’t wait to see Brian! Bet Jillie can’t wait to show daddy all her new skills. I loved the pictures on your last blog, I especially like the one of you and Jillie in the middle of the street. I’m thinking of you and Jillie and saying a prayer, its 10:15 thurs. night. I’ll be with you in spirt and know that all will go well just like you said! Can I just say again how much I admire you for all you do for Jillie, she is truely blessed to have such a SPECIAL mom. I’ll be checking your blog tommorrow waiting to hear (read) all about the Bean! Give her a kiss for me, and another one, and another one and one more!
We Love you,God Bless you both and Carole and LaLa and Dr. Mike and all that have cared for Jillie.
Billy, Lori,Rebecca and Vincent
4. grammakuna | September 26th, 2008 at 11:12 am
LOVE,KISSES,PRAYERS,SUGAR—-It is all yours. God be with you. Will be anxiously awaiting news of this last injection.
GrammaK
5. Jessica Joy | September 26th, 2008 at 1:45 pm
I love and miss you Jillie:) I am so glad that you are doing so well with everything. I am praying that your little tummy starts working properly so that you can eat your yummy food again:) I can’t wait until you star in you next youtube movie and show off your new moves. I am so proud of you!
I love and miss you, too, Tami! I am so glad that you are handling everything so well. I can not believe that an air bubble was about to enter in Jillie; I gasped when I read that. Thank God you are such an alert mother and caught that. Did you ever find out what type of anesthesia they were about to use?
Hi Carole! I am so thankful that you can be there for Tami and Jillie. I was concerned about Tami being there all alone with no one to lean on and I almost hopped on a plane to be with them. Tami and I talked about me going with them when she first considered going to China, but as the reality of it set in, it was just to expensive. I wish I could be there, so praise God you were able to go over there.
God Bless all of you!
6. Jenn | September 26th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
Good Afternoon Ladies
I was just checking in and to let you know we are still praying and waiting to hear how arestar is doing.
Love You All
Jenn, Doug, And David.
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