“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by…”
July 7th, 2009
My father sat in his living room last week and told my sister Mindee that if someone would have told him a year ago that half of his family would be in China during the 3rd week in June he would have laughed. But they sat, wondering if my mom and sister had made it and worried about Noah and I. China is not the place you think of when someone is ill and needing more answers then they are getting from their DR’s. We think of the Mayo Clinic, and not China. It is certainly off the beaten path and a road that few have traveled. We are the minority, the weary “mum” of a beautiful 2 year old boy named Cody from the UK. The father who came alone with Ella who has 3 older siblings at home in Iowa is on the same journey of hope that Noah and I came in search of. Or there is Michael who is 37 and here with his mom Debbie, blind from a bike accident or Kit who is paralyzed from a drunk driver who is here with both of his parents. No matter who makes up the family dynamic- they are here, we are here, with so many loved ones left behind in search of hope. As we have shared our stories we have the same sentiment as 3 of families leave tomorrow and another 2 on Wednesday- “no regrets!” We would all do it again because- yes- this journey is about hope, but it is also about faith and love. We would go to the ends of the earth to help ourselves and the people we love more then anyone else in this world have a better quality of life. So although Robert Frost’s poem is appropriate for me to say to all of you- to the people I leave behind- that road became a beautiful path when I joined-Cody and Stacey, and Don and Ella, and Michael and Debbie and Autumn and Kathy and Arjay and Angel and the many others who have not only helped me down the path, but are giving me the courage to keep on the path that only we have traveled together. And when the next opportunity comes for me to seek “the road less traveled” what will I do? With hope in my heart I will have “took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.” And when I step on that path all my friends here from China will be there too.
| The Road Not Taken |
| TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood, | |
| And sorry I could not travel both | |
| And be one traveler, long I stood | |
| And looked down one as far as I could | |
| To where it bent in the undergrowth; | 5 |
| Then took the other, as just as fair, | |
| And having perhaps the better claim | |
| Because it was grassy and wanted wear; | |
| Though as for that, the passing there | |
| Had worn them really about the same, | 10 |
| And both that morning equally lay | |
| In leaves no step had trodden black. | |
| Oh, I marked the first for another day! | |
| Yet knowing how way leads on to way | |
| I doubted if I should ever come back. | 15 |
| I shall be telling this with a sigh | |
| Somewhere ages and ages hence: | |
| Two roads diverged in a wood, and I, | |
| I took the one less traveled by, | |
| And that has made all the difference. | 20 |
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7 Comments Add your own
1. Michele | July 7th, 2009 at 8:29 am
Beautiful! Sharing this experience with everyone made us all feel like we were with you on your road less traveled.
You are an Awesome writer, teacher, sister, friend, mother, daughter, dog owner, collegue, and respected by many!
I’ll travel that road with you again and again!
Love you Sweetie,
Michele
2. Marty Golby | July 7th, 2009 at 9:21 am
Hey Mia and Noah,
Thanks for sharing your “road” with us! Have a safe trip home!
–Marty and Sue
3. Dad | July 7th, 2009 at 9:53 am
Wing it home babe and bring my buddy,I
miss you both so much. DAD
4. Janet Ruthey | July 7th, 2009 at 12:30 pm
Fly with those Angels, they’ll get you home safely for lots of love, hugs, and kisses, even doggey kisses. See you soon Meesy, Love Mom
5. Sue Wesselmann | July 8th, 2009 at 10:44 am
Welcome home Mia and Noah.
I know you took the right road!
6. Angie | July 8th, 2009 at 10:58 am
Hey Girlfriend!
Wow~~ I have been out of town for the past few weeks and just caught up on your journey of hope blogs! I can’t believe you are home. You are a true inspiration! I am so fortunate I was a part of that journey and I wish you lots of happiness and continued hope! Noah, you are amazing!
Love, Angie
7. Sandra Cantu-Torres | July 10th, 2009 at 8:54 am
Mia,
I have to say that I am so happy that you are doing better and you have done a wonderful job with Noah! I can only say that sharing your experience reminds all of us of the things we are grateful for family, friends, and everything that God gives us. Enjoy the time with your family…
Sandra
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