Archive for July, 2007
Our first restaurant meal
Hi everyone,
Happy 30th Anniversary Sandra and Keith, and many more to come!
Nothing much is happening here. Jack got through his 4th injection the same as the others. The physio seems to think that his tone is less and I agree that he has been a bit more relaxed the last coupl of days. The docs see this as an improvement, but I’m not convinced as this is what Jack is like. He goes through days of tightness then relaxes. He is also getting used to Daisey so is relaxing more with her.
All of the American children have gone home over the last few days. I think that their school term starts again soon. We met some really nice mums and it would be great to stay in touch to see how the kids progress. The Canadian men, Cameron, Brian and Bob, left yesterday too, they were lovely. Andy enjoyed some male company as they met him on a few occasions for a drink at the hotel. Cameron was here having treatment for a spinal injury that occurred approx 20years ago in a car accident, and his outlook on life is more positive that most people I know. They’ve now gone for a three day break in Hong Kong before travelling home,( sounds like a good idea).
They have mostly been replaced bt Hungarians, so lacking a bit of English speaking company. We’ve still got Scott next door from England with his friend and thier are two American couples , the Irish lads and three Italian lads. They’re so funny the Italians and so friendly. They’re always chatting the nurses up! The Irish lads are seem quiet but really nice and polite.
Yesterday, we got out of the hospital and went to the hotel ,then across to a new supermarket that Andy found. Jack loved it . It was packed with people and kids and lots of people kept bringing their kids up to say hello to Jack. (not that he would smile back!) Then we went into one of the restaurants in the hotel, for the first time. We were the only one’s in there but Jack seemed impressed with the place and it was lovely just to sit and have a steak and a glass of wine. (My first alcohol for three weeks!) Jack was impressed with the big basket of different breads that the waitress brought out, especially the brown bread that he thought would be chocolate flavoured, but of course wasn’t. After the first bite he decided to try some different ones!
Andy is still going to the Gym every night (and no Jim isn’t the bartenders name as my sister asked)
I’ve found out that the market that Andy went to and said was just full of “tat” was in fact where you get all the silk pyjamas and gifts from so – he’s on his way back there tomorrow to pick up some gifts. Lord knows what he’ll come back with! I’ve told Zach that he’s in charge and to guide him in the right directions!
Just for infromation purposes the treatment here is the same price for everyone no matter which country they come from ,it’s in $us. (That’s info for Martin who I don’t know if got my Email.)
Anyway im going now.
Jack has his next spinal on Wednesday.
Bye for now
Jane, Andy and Jack x
July 30th, 2007
Hey
I hope I’m on royalties with the Telegraph for all the extracts from my blog being printed! I’m having grand notions now – I’m thinking of writing my first novel when I get home! Lol.
I must correct a couple of things “quoted” by Kirshner, maybe she got mixed up but Jack isn’t having acupuncture and he’s not had any “minor” improvements yet that I’ve seen but she is right- its early days yet.
Andy’s bought some gym gear and started going to the gym at the hotel at nights (see he’s not really missing the beer at all boys!) although I think he ends up in the bar afterwards. He tells me he’s the only one in there most of the time,but the other night there was some sort of caberet night going on and with only about 10 people in the bar, he got dragged up for a “who can down a pint the fastest” contest with a German, Chinaman, Englishman (starting to sound like a joke) and chinagirl. Who won?
Go girl power! The girl of course! Down in one.
Jack’s doing OK. He’s mostly his happy little self. I often ask him if he loves mummy, daddy and go through the family, to which he smiles or giggles his response. I did this last night and got to the staff here , Wendy(smiles), Zach (smiles), Daisey (smiles), The nurse (a twitch in the corner) the Doctors (deadpad face!) no way was he going to smile at liking the docs! Lol
It didn’t help the nurse cause either that I bought them a couple of tubs of chocolate and took him out with me to give to them. We returned to our room and he his bottom lip right out at having to give away the choccy, then burst into tears. I had to show him the couple (alright-six!) of mini snickers that I’d bought for my evening treats, to convince him we hadn’t given all the choc away! He cheered up , smacking his lips together in anicipation.
While I rememer it did say in the Telegraph about Jack being strapped down on the standing table and sounded like this was where we gave him his injection . If I typed something misleading I appologise. The standing table was something we tried him with in the morning and haven’t tried since! I’ll wait untill we get home and he can go in his standing frame , which he loves, then.
He’s asleep in his bed/cot next to me at the moment and has his 4th injection tomorrow – a spinal.
I’ve been on the stemcellschina site and to Shonia’s blog, who is a girl from UK in Beijing, having treatment for her CP by a different company/hospital. She seems to be having great improvements (for parents like us any improvement is great for your child) I’ve told them we’re thinking of them and watching closely.
Hey, Jack actually smiled at a doctor today. I saw them coming so I scooped him up from the bed where he was having physio and only two came in,(maybe they’re learning – two’s company……..) and one of them gave him a little steel knee hammer to hold. I did a “bang,bang” with his hand holding it and he cracked a smile at the doc!
I’ll tell you who he sreams with dlight at, our two cleaners who come in every morning and say hello with big grins. He watches their every move and loves it when they stop any talk to him in chinese. Actually, they are loveley ladies, they told Daisey this morning that I was beautiful. Andy seemed to have some sort of snorting coughing fit just after for some reason!!!!!!
On that note I’m off now, it’s 9:20pm and life gets going early in the mornings, need my beauty sleep.
Love to all
Jane, Andy and Jack x
July 26th, 2007
Just a note to say Andy’s getting lots of texts off you all, thanks, he’s been trying to reply but for some reason neither of our phones will send texts, we’ve tried and they’re all coming back fialed! We’ve tried to sort it with T. mobile but to no avail.
July 24th, 2007
We CAN NOT get Jack into the physiotherapy room for his standing bed therapy! As soon as we enter the area he won’t have it. There are lots of people in there at the same time and we tried to lie him on the bed on monday, strapped him in and stood him up, all while he was having a paddy! Then the doctors turned up to compound the situation. Everyone is finally in agreement – he doesn’t like the place! We got him out and calmed him down and now I have to keep taking him down for walks to pop in and “play” and say hello, try to get him used to going. ( It’s not working yet!!!)
He had his IV yesterday, which didn’t go too badly, once they’d got the IV into him hand. He wouldn’t smile at any of the nurses though that kept coming in to check on him. He just curled his lip up and grunted at them. I thought being here would help with his phobia of doctors but its making him worse. The doctors come in every morning and he’s still screaming at them, in fact he was doing his physio yesterday and I said to Daisey, that the doctors sound like they are on their way. Jack understood and started looking at the door and crying before they even arrived! When he’s crying he gets all hot and bothered and his chickenpox scars all glow red, well the doctors started panicing thinking he was having an alergic reaction. As soon as I said “chickenpox scars” they calmed down. “Ahhh, chickenpox!” nodding to each other, “Phew”.
I actually went out on my own today. I went to the clothes store but decided not to walk as soon as i got outside! I got in a motorised rikshaw (they were all fighting over me) and went for a nice bumpy ride for about 35p. I wasted my time there though there was nothing in my size! The people here are so slim and small (well thats my excuse!) I rikshawed to the supermarket and then back to the hospital. Its definately the way to travel. Ive told Andy to do it, save that sweaty walk back when he goes food shopping, but he says he needs the exercise. (Really he doesn’t trust his life in their hands!)
It’s Jack teatime now so I’ve got to go.
love Jane, Andy and Jackpot
July 24th, 2007
Jack with Massimo from Italy who arrived two days ago
July 23rd, 2007
hi everyone, i thought id give jane a break from the laptop so ive got on but jane seems to have said it all,i would like to thank you all for your support back home; we cant wait every morning to have a look to see if we have any comments dont worry if you dont see them on the blog straight away smetimes it takes a little while.
well we are half way through the treatment after today, cant wait to get back home for a bacon n egg sandwich with HP brown sauce followed by several ice cold carlings! OH YES! so get ready boys i will be on a mission,ive been looking on the telegraph website every day the weather has not been to good,well over here weather is red hot around 37 39 but in the evening for the last few nights the thunder and lighting show has been out of this world, at around 5.45 last night the sun was still out , then whithin 5 mins you would have thought it was midnight and the skys opened; the rain was the worst i have ever seen , it came down that fast and heavy cars on the main road were at a stand still it started to come at the front entrance of the hospital! i look forward to receiveing your comments soon here are some more photos of Jack taken today, as you can see he wasnt happy about it! any way thats about it from me as Jack is due for his 3rd stemcell injection anytime now.
all the best everyone Andy,Jane,n Jack xxx
July 23rd, 2007
It worked Geoff, apparently I can only upload one at a time!
July 22nd, 2007
Hello everyone,
Ive not blogged for a couple of days because there’s not a lot to tell.
Jack’s been in a good mood. Andy went downtown Hangzhou on Thursday night but wasn’t impressed much. He went to the markets but didn’t get much. He wasn’t feeling well actually before he went ,it was still very hot at 7pm and the smell of some of the food being cooked on the street was – to be polite -not nice! “Stinky toe food” Zach called it, who took Andy. Andy said there was just a load of tat there, but we all know what men are like shopping!
We took a taxi ride on Friday morning to Westlake, a lovely large lake, which we drove around. It was packed with tourists all the way round and our taxi driver kept stopping to point out famous things which he thought we should know. He only spoke in chinese though so we had no idea what he was saying! I felt like a typical tourist sat in the back saying “ah yes”.
Andy kept saying “temple?” occasionally, and Mr Lee (the driver) just nodded back “Yes!” The only site we understood was “The Shangri-la” as we passed the hotel. I thought that Jack would like the taxi ride too, but he was as stiff as a board on the half hour trip there and wouldn’t relax at all! He did settle down eventually. We didn’t get out to walk round which would have been lovely if it was a tad cooler, but Mr. Lee kept stopping and telling Andy to get out and take a picture at various spots on the way round. That was funny because Andy didn’t really want to and so the camera had a lot of random pictures of lake, tourists, boats and temples and sometimes he had no idea what Mr. Lee had stopped for! It kept Mr. Lee happy.
A few people have gone home and new ones arrived. We got talking to a lady with her ten year old son with C.P. from Hungary. She has been here with him in January and carried on with the physio therapy that they did to him here, (quite robustly by all accounts!) when they got back. After two months he was able to stand up with a walker, which prior to stem cells he had just shuffled on the floor. He’s here now walking round and round with his walker (slowly of course). His mum pushes him really hard and he doesn’t always want to do it but it’s working. He gave us a quick “phew” with his arm across his forehead in jest, as we passed by him. Lol.
There was another thunderstorm and lightening display last night. It wasn’t as close as the one we had last week though, I thought the rain was going to damage something it was coming down so hard on the windows! I couldn’t believe Jack had gone to sleep with all the noise!
Jack has his next stem cells by IV tomorrow, we don’t know what time, because we haven’t been given our time sheet for next week yet. This will be interesting because everyone having their IV sit in a room together and have it done. That might put Jack off a bit so I might ask if he can have it in our room seeing as we are exactly opposite. Then he gets another spinal injection on Friday. I hope they do something different with his physio session this week. They have standing beds which I’ve asked if we can put him in, as he loves being in his standing frame at home. Daisey said yes Monday, so he should like that (hopefully!)
I must go feed the boy now! While I remember, if you ARE coming here you CAN get spagetti, oh and Andy says to say bring plenty of deodrant because that’s not on the shelves!! (He knows, he’s run out and using my spare)
We’ve just been given next weeks rota, yes, he has physio AND standing therapy then electric wave therapy.Good.
Must go .
Love to everyone
Jane, Andy and Jack
ps i keep trying to upload pictures – ill try one now
July 22nd, 2007
July 20th, 2007
Hi everyone,
Wow, it was a hot one yesterday! Andy went to the supermarket and came back ringing wet through. Another lady here with her son went to the zoo in the morning and when she arrived back on the ward I passed her,while walking round with Jack, and she looked very odd. She maneged to get to the door of her room with her son and the nurse at this stage were aware that she was walking funny. They got her into her room and apparently she had heat exhaustion! That’s put me off going anywhere for sure! Tomorrow we might go for a ride around the beautiful lake 30 minutes away – Westlake (staying in the taxi all the time). Jack loves the taxi rides because they beep all the time as they pass anyone that might look like they’ll bump. It’s actually scarey, some of the near misses. There are cars, bikes(lots),motorbikes(no helmets mostly),and rickshaws, all coming from every direction (or so it seems). I just breath in and close my eyes but Jack kicks and squeels at the beeeeeep. Andy said the taxi driver that brought him the other day actually hit a young boy outside the hospital! Andy was shouted “watch out!!!” The boy was OK when he got up apparently!
How did the second injection go? The same as last time. Jack upset as soon as he saw them coming in with a trolly, trying twice to get an IV into him, etc. Again Jack settled down to watch his favorites on the laptop at the side of the bed afterwards and after two hours he had a bit of juice and four hours sloppy food , so that I could spoon it in without him choking. I remembered to change his nappy this time too, as last time it was overloaded with fluid. (I never thought about the two bags of fluid being dripped into him having to come out!!). Then I rolled himover and he slept like a baby all night.
He wasn’t in a good mood this morning though and refused breakfast, so I gave him some calpol just in case he had a headache.
I didn’t think that he would entertain Daisey and physio at all this morning, but he went along with it until the docs came round to visit! There are about eight people come into the room and gather rather closely round, all trying to be friendly, then his doctor tries to talk to him and hold his hand- thats when Jack does his bit!! They don’t hang around long then!
Daisey had to give up on the physio then because he was NOT in the mood.
All the nurses have chinese names and English names: Wendy, Daisey, Sophie, Kitty, to name a few.
There’s one thing I don’t have to do here – The laundry! Someone comes to pick up what you’ve got twice a week and delivers itback two days later for a small charge. There is no washing machine here (otherwise I would have set that task for Andy!) By the way he says thanks to his “mates” comments on his cooking and drinking skills!!! (keep it up).
Appologies about my spelling , I can’t seem to find spell check anywhere. (That’s just in case Glenda my teacher on the computer course I just passed is reading)
Thanks for all your good wishes everyone.
Jane,Andy and Jackxx
July 19th, 2007
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